I have never actually used a dating app, but I know how they work. I’ve had friends in the online dating game.You look at a face on your screen for two seconds, and your thumb decides. Right for yes. Left for no. No overthinking or justification. Just a flick. I thought of this yesterday while standing in front of my closet, staring at a blouse I’ve had for several years and worn maybe twice. I wasn’t swiping on a person. I was swiping on a look I thought I wanted once–a look never quite felt right for me. We all have those outfits we bought and then later thought, what…
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Friendships–A Choose Your Own Adventure
Remember those “Choose Your Own Adventure” books? The ones where you’d read several pages, then you got to decide: turn to page 42 if you open the mysterious door, or turn to page 67 if you take a sharp left and run as fast as you can. I enjoyed those books, not because of how well written they were or the exciting plot — half of them didn’t have one — but because I loved the feeling I had making my own choice. There was no single way, but many versions of an ending, and I got to choose. I think friendships should work the same way. Where we get…
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30 Ways to Live a More Analog Life
Through the Lens of the Nine FacetsIn a world that grows more digital by the day, many of us are quietly longing for something slower, simpler, and more tangible. An off-screen, analog life invites us to cherish our time, our relationships, and the ordinary moments that make up a well-lived real life. It’s about putting our hands on real things, being fully present where we are, and choosing experiences that nourish our soul. Using the structure of the Nine Facets, here are 30 ideas to get you started — no wifi required. EXPLORE Slow down and actually arrive somewhere Map your curiosity and plan a trip with a paper map. Literally circle five places on a…
